A Nigerian woman, Oyinkansola, has captured the attention of social media users across Kenya by sharing her impressive life achievements, all of which she realised after turning 36.
In a recent post on X, she detailed her journey year by year, starting with her completion of a Master’s degree at 36, which was just the beginning of her transformative path.
Relocating to the US and Joining The Army
At 38, Oyinkansola made the bold decision to relocate to the United States. Within a year of her move, she enlisted in the US Army at the age of 39—a significant step that culminated in her achieving American citizenship by 40.
A PhD and an African Play Centre
Rather than resting on her laurels, Oyinkansola continued to chase her dreams.
At 41, she began a PhD programme and is actively working on the development of an African Play Centre at 42.
This project not only highlights her commitment to her cultural roots but also showcases her drive to create a lasting impact within her community.
Her resounding message to those who feel time is slipping away is both motivational and clear-cut:
“Just do it. You will grow older anyway, so why don’t you age with impact, influence and income?”
Reframing Ageing
Oyinkansola’s narrative reframes ageing as a realm of opportunity instead of a hurdle.
For many, particularly women dealing with societal expectations regarding career, education, and family, her story provides a fresh perspective on future possibilities.
Her timeline of achievement resonates deeply with individuals who leave the country in pursuit of better opportunities abroad, often later in life than societal norms might suggest.
See the post below:
I did my Masters degree at 36.
I moved to the United States at 38.
I joined the US Army at 39.
I got my US Citizenship at 40.
I started my PhD at 41.
I am building an African Play Center at 42.
Just do it. You will grow older anyway, so why don’t you age with impact,… pic.twitter.com/Jv5haNb345
— Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) (@EmotionsDoctor) September 3, 2026
