Kenyan blogger Njambi Fever has urged young women to focus on building their own lives instead of relying on wealthy partners to solve their problems.
She said that having a clear direction and working on personal growth is more important than depending on someone else’s money. According to her, self-investment is key to creating a meaningful life.
On Monday, January 12, 2027, she said, “Sometimes if you have NOTHING, even a billionaire can’t save you. Have a direction. Let your life MOVE.”
Njambi explained that relying solely on a rich partner without a personal foundation can leave one vulnerable.
She encouraged women to take charge of their own lives.
Njambi said, “Build something on your own; then maybe when you meet the next rich one, he’ll add something meaningful.”
She added that wealth or status alone cannot create happiness or security without personal effort. Her advice focuses on independence and self-reliance.
Invest in yourself first
Njambi Fever is known for offering guidance to women on love, relationships, and motherhood. She said that being independent allows women to make better choices and create a life that they can be proud of.
According to her, relying on others without having a foundation limits growth opportunities.
She said, “Invest in yourself, girl.” Njambi explained that personal growth includes building skills, creating income, and having a clear life direction. She added that these steps help women contribute meaningfully in any partnership they enter.
As a proud mother of one, Njambi often says how she works hard to provide the best life for her daughter. She says that her independence and ability to earn her own money are central to the values she wants to pass on. Her message emphasises that self-sufficiency empowers women to lead fulfilling lives.
Njambi says that women should not wait for someone else to bring them success or happiness. She added that even in relationships, having a strong personal foundation is what allows women to thrive. She believes independence and self-investment are essential for long-term stability and personal fulfilment.
Her advice to young women is to know the importance of having goals, taking action, and building something meaningful for oneself. She said that financial or social support from others should be a complement, not a substitute, for personal effort and growth.
