Kenyan gospel singer Mercy Masika has sparked debate on social media after promoting a masterclass dubbed Becoming a Wife, prompting conversations about marriage preparation, traditional gender roles and expectations placed on women in relationships.
The discussion has drawn mixed reactions, with some Kenyans questioning why women need to be taught how to become wives, while others argue that marriage requires learning, preparation and guidance.
While sharing details of the masterclass, the renowned gospel artist announced that the programme is for every woman who believes marriage should not be miserable.
“This is for every woman who believes marriage shouldn’t be miserable, who wants to get it right and trusts that God’s way is best. You’ll never regret choosing His design. WhatsApp now for more details,” Mercy Masika posted on her Instagram.
Her post has sparked various reactions raising questions about the expectations placed on women in relationships, the commercialisation of marriage advice and whether women should be encouraged to pursue such programmes.
One social media user criticised the initiative, arguing that women were becoming less willing to accept teachings they considered manipulative.
“I’m glad women are no longer falling victim to this nonsense.They have always been easy to manipulate and be groomed, but no more. The economy is hard, and being taught about men does not add any value.But do you care?!Just out here exploiting fellow women,” read a response from the post.
Why the masterclass has sparked debate
One of the main issues raised by critics is whether programmes focused on becoming a wife place too much responsibility on women to make marriages work.
Some commenters questioned why women are frequently encouraged to improve their conduct and prepare for marriage, while similar attention is not always given to men’s responsibilities as husbands.
Others argued that marriage should be approached as a partnership in which both people learn to communicate, share responsibilities and work through disagreements.
Some online reactions also questioned whether a masterclass could adequately prepare someone for the realities of marriage, particularly when couples have different personalities, values and expectations.
