Content creator Lydia Wanjiru has said that online friendships can be just as risky as online relationships.
In a post on Instagram on Tuesday, January 27, 2026, she explained that the embarrassment of falling out is equal, and that people need to be careful about what they share online. She added that even adults should respect each other’s secrets and avoid revealing information that is private or sensitive.
She said online interactions often feel casual, but mistakes can have serious consequences.
“Another day to remind you that even online friendships are as dangerous as online relationships,” she explained.
She advised that people should only address what is already in public knowledge and avoid sharing private matters.
“But honestly, we are adults, please keep each other’s secrets. Address what’s already in public knowledge but not secrets,” she said.
The importance of discretion online
Wanjiru added that sharing too much online can also implicate the person posting the information. She explained that even small details, when made public, can cause unnecessary problems.
“As you share, be careful, you can implicate yourself too,” she said.
She encouraged people to think carefully before posting, commenting, or discussing sensitive topics on social media.
She said respecting boundaries and private information is a sign of maturity.
“Anywho, me of all the people, what do I know,” she explained, showing that even she is mindful of the challenges online friendships present.
She explained that awareness and discretion are key to avoiding conflicts and misunderstandings online.
This comes after content creator and comedian Mulamwah’s ex-girlfriend, Ruth Njoki Karegi, also known as Ruth K, explained how she lost access to her son’s Instagram and TikTok accounts. She linked the loss to what she described as unauthorised interference by a former associate and friend.
In a messy friendship breakup, Ruth K in a statement, clarified that she is no longer working with or affiliated in any way with Ann Walthera, also known as The Bush Tailor, or any individuals or entities connected to her.
The two were friends beyond work, judging from what they used to post on social media. Their breakup has been messy, leaving many to discuss female friendships and friendships in general.
