Nairobi County Chief Officer for Citizen Engagement and Customer Service, Geoffrey Mosiria, has urged men to approach love with intentionality and clear commitment, emphasising that emotional investment should be matched with serious intentions.
Mosiria, in a bold statement shared on his Instagram account on Thursday, March 26, 2026, advised that if men are going to invest in educating someone they love, they should do so either with a ring in hand or with someone who will achieve three key milestones.
According to Mosiria, before investing in her education in the name of love, they should make sure the lady will graduate with three certificates, which include one from college, the birth certificate of their child, and a marriage certificate.
“To the men out there, please, it doesn’t have to get to that point. If you must invest your love, invest with a ring in your hand or invest in someone who will graduate with three certificates: one from college, the birth certificate of your child, and a marriage certificate,” Mosiria urged.
His statement highlights the importance of commitment and long-term thinking in relationships, encouraging men to avoid casual or uncertain romantic entanglements.
Mosiria to ladies
In addition, Mosiria also spoke directly to women, urging them to be honest in matters of the heart.
He warned that if a woman does not truly love a man, she should not play with his feelings, emphasising the emotional harm that insincerity can cause.
“To our ladies, if you know you do not love that man, please do not play with his feelings,” he added.
Healthy relationship
The call for sincerity and responsibility from both genders comes amid ongoing discussions about modern relationships, where unclear intentions often lead to emotional hurt and gender-based violence.
On Monday, March 23, 2026, Suba North Member of Parliament Millie Odhiambo has addressed gender-based violence in the country, calling out those who resort to violence to address conflicts.
The lawmaker noted that GBV affects both men and women, adding that women are disproportionately affected.
“Say no to gender-based violence. Gender-based violence affects both men and women, but women are disproportionately affected. The fact that there is an alleged morality issue does not excuse violence,” Millie said.
“Ukiachwa, accept and move on. Should it be true that a married man was involved, he may lose his freedom and his job and cause stigma to his children and wife [that he has already brought into the public limelight unfairly]. Violence is never a solution.”
