Social media personality Siah Wanja has opened up about her strict views on loyalty in relationships, revealing that cheating is a deal-breaker she cannot overlook.
Speaking during an interview on Monday, December 23, 2025, Wanja discussed modern dating challenges, relationship insecurities, and her personal rules for love, offering insight into her perspective as a prominent online figure.
“I don’t cheat. If it’s you, it’s you. But if you cheat, I will cheat back,” Wanja explained, emphasising that honesty is always preferable to retaliation. “I don’t think that’s nice. I’d rather break up than cheat,” she added, making her stance on loyalty very clear.
On the subject of forgiveness, Wanja is clear that she cannot overlook cheating. She believes loyalty and trust are essential in any healthy relationship, and without them, partnerships are unlikely to survive.
“Never. If someone cheats, I cannot forgive,” she stated.
Wanja went on to discuss the challenges of modern dating, pointing out that casual attitudes toward sex, along with transactional approaches to relationships, have made romance more complicated.
“There is no loyalty nowadays. People are dating to get something, not because of love,” she noted.
According to her, insecurity and lack of commitment are among the biggest issues young couples face today.
The social media personality also shared her thoughts on what she looks for in a partner. She expressed a preference for traditional men who can offer care and stability.
“I want someone to take care of me. I’ll stay home, cook, and give babies,” Wanja said. However, she also appreciates modern partners who allow her independence and social freedom.
“But I also want to go out, be sexy, and make friends,” she added, showing that she values balance between tradition and personal freedom.
