Stuck in a self pleasure rut? Girl, we got you!
In today’s world of instant gratification, it’s very easy to forget that masturbation is more than getting your body to orgasm. It’s a chance to explore your deepest desires, which will then pave the way for an unforgettable journey to pleasure-town. To kickstart your sensual adventure, here are some irresistibly sexy ideas to elevate your solo play routine:
1) Don’t Limit The Lube For Sexy Times With Your Partner
Everything’s better when it’s wetter? Hell to the yeah!
Embracing the use of lubricants goes beyond necessity; it’s about elevating the entire experience of clitoral stimulation, irrespective of whether you’re getting off with a toy or your own fingers.
2) Prioritise Foreplay For Solo Sex Too
It’s a date with yourself for goodness sake!
So, take self love literally by creating a romantic ambience, throwing on your favourite lingerie, illuminating the space with some candles and putting on some soothing tunes. Begin by gently applying massage oils across your entire body, exploring the sensations on the nape of your neck, the dimples on your back, and the curves of your hips. The focus is on connecting with your body’s sensations, allowing yourself to fully appreciate and acknowledge the unique feelings each part of your skin offers, without the added pressure of reaching the big O.
3) Put Your Hips Into It
Make sure to masturbate like nobody’s watching!
Since most women masturbate lying down, gently thrusting your hips while in the act of self love and squeezing your vaginal muscles can go a long way in heightening arousal. Ditch the notion of what being turned on is supposed to look like and tap into what feels natural and good to you – your vagina will thank you!
4) When It Comes To Pleasure, Less Might Just Be More
ICYMI, your clitoris need not be blasted off with the highest vibration setting available to mankind!
Explore your own body by gently caressing the area around your underwear or engaging in subtle movements around the clitoral region without direct contact. This will help you get a sense of your sensitivity so you know exactly where your sweet spot lies. When you sense arousal intensifying, pause briefly to regain composure before resuming. Repeat this process for as long as you’re comfortable, and the outcomes are likely to be incredibly satisfying.
5) Mindfully Choose What You Get Off Too
It’s no surprise that your approach to self-love can transform drastically, influenced by factors such as your preference for erotica or the power of your imagination. If you ask us, we recommend embracing ethical porn and considering paid options, as they cater to diverse preferences. Additionally, the growing popularity of audio erotica provides a unique avenue for you to envision your desires. Alternatively, tapping into your own imagination by recalling favorite intimate scenes from literature or films and substituting yourself as the protagonist can unlock a wealth of untapped potential for personal enjoyment.
